How to gain confidence in public speaking

Hello, good day everyone, I have come with something important we need to discuss again which I called "SHYNESS".

Shyness is a completely natural reaction ( it is common to most people especially the introverts. Shyness is something that can be learn and practiced over time.

"The reason why you are shy and have trouble connecting with others is because you are too way too focused on yourself (this has happened to me many times and I already overcame it, infact then I am shy to even my families)

How then do you overcome the shyness of a thing?

1. Adopt a curious mindset. What do I mean by this, take away those feelings, urge, focus about you and start seeing others' own as important. By doing this,

- You engage with them

- You start asking them questions

- You are wanting to learn more about them

- Your full energy is focused on learning about the other person

2. Elaborate on your responses. How do you do this, when people ask you question, don't just give a short answer but rather, make it long and this leads you to number three

3. Have a story to share. Make sure the story goes along with what you are discussing about

4. Be present and listen intently. When you ask question, make sure the other person is done with the question before asking another one. Don't be too fast in asking question because they will consider that you aren't listening to them at all or probably lost in your own thought.

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